Each and every one of you has their own way of maintaining a healthy relationship, but in my opinion, most relationships consist of someone lacking confidence in themselves. A strong and confident individual is what makes one so divine, this goes for both girls and boys; it does not matter what gender you are. Take the initiative to grow more confident in yourself, if not yourself, in your significant other and both of your relationships. The problem could be that someone is not trying hard enough or it could be a case of someone that is trying too much and is not getting anything back in return. I understand that we should not be expecting anything back in return, but it would be nice to have someone do the favor as well, right? A relationship takes two, not just one. 

If you need reassurance, you have to tell your significant other. If you need comfort, you have to tell your significant other. Don’t go around telling your friends, don’t waste your time sulking over something that could be a small matter. Don’t grow frustrated, don’t be silly. You need to tell your significant other about how you are truly feeling. How do you expect your significant other to understand how you are feeling if he or she does not understand why you are acting the way you are acting? If you tell a friend, do you expect them to tell your significant other? That is probably the worst way to think. You need to be confident, you need to stand your ground. If he or she loves you, you need to talk to your significant other about how you are feeling. Of course it is wonderful to let out your emotions to someone you hold close that is a friend, but it is much better to talk about it with your significant other if he or she truly cares for you. 

All healthy relationships consist of two working hand and hand together. Those relationships people are so envious of consist of two people who are honest with another. If there’s a problem, they would likely take the time to discuss about it together. Grow more confident, grow more stronger. Don’t do it just for your significant other, don’t do it just for your relationship, do it for yourself. Do it for the sake of keeping yourself healthy and your significant other. Maintain a healthy relationship.